Stacey Wions and Aleck Johnson
May 8, 2004
Binghamton, New York
About Us
About Stacey
I was born in
Maryland and moved to Binghamton, NY when I was 9. I graduated from Vestal High
School and SUNY at Buffalo. I moved to DC for a one year internship and stayed!
I earned my Master's degree in Social Work from Catholic University in 2003 and
work as a Case Manager at
Bread for the City.
I love Aleck more every day because he cares about me, and more importantly
because he makes me laugh.
About Aleck
I was raised in Claremont, CA.
Following college, I went East, where I was lucky enough to meet Stacey, who is
without a doubt the light of my life.
How
We Met
Stacey and Aleck met in Washington,
DC through Adeena Colbert when Adeena and Stacey were roommates. Adeena worked
in an office where Aleck also had office space and they met when Stacey would
come to meet Adeena after work. They saw each other at office functions of his
and Adeena's and spoke on the phone for the first time after Adeena related that
Stacey had recently purchased a Packard Bell computer to carry her through
graduate school and he felt compelled to call. "Stacey, Stacey, Stacey," he
said, shaking his head and sighing. "If anything ever goes wrong with it, and it
will, call me and I'll fix it for you." "Thanks," she
answered.
"Hey," he replied, "that's what friends are for."
So a few weeks later he called again and got her machine. She was unemployed and
screening calls. He asked her out on the machine (on the machine!) while she
stood there listening (Stacey still hasn't lived this one down. Why did she even
tell him?!). Coming up is quite a sore spot in their early relationship: She didn't call him back. That night or the next. (Not for three
days!) She had plans to be at his office later in the week and decided to answer
in person, only later finding out that by then, he almost said no! Luckily for
us all, he gave her one last shot. Their first date was on March 27, 1999.
THE PROPOSAL
When we got engaged
May 18, 2002
How it Happened
Aleck bought the ring in Binghamton in
March and hid it for 2 months in the tool box (somewhere Stacey would never go,
but where she will look first for everything from now on). They decided to go
away overnight to celebrate 3 years of dating (belatedly) and Aleck, knowing
that he was going to propose that weekend, let Stacey plan the entire thing. She
chose the location (Williamsburg, VA), the hotel, the restaurant for dinner, and
even researched things to do in the area. During dinner Aleck took her down the
most misleading path he could, all but saying he just wasn't ready for marriage
right now. Stacey argued that they could certainly have a long engagement; just
give her a damn ring already! She even went so far as to offer help in picking
one out. After dinner Aleck wanted to take a walk through Colonial Williamsburg
and Stacey, of course, was cold and wanted to go back to the hotel and get
some hot chocolate. Aleck said, "Just walk with me." So they walked, with Aleck
trying to set a mood and Stacey, figuring her chances at getting engaged anytime
soon were shot, was oblivious and stopped every few feet to blow her nose. Very
romantic. Finally they sat on a bench. He said he had two questions for her. He
asked her, if she were to help him pick out a ring, would it look like this one
(and he then presented the ring). And then he slid off the bench onto his knee
and asked his second question: would she marry him. (And then he got back on the
bench because the ground was cold.) And she said yes.
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